I’ll be the first to acknowledge I’m a loud guy. I’m talking vocally here. The whole use your indoor voice thing, seems I skipped that lesson. I don’t do it to be a pain I’m just naturally loud, hell I was told once you could hear me and my dad talking half from over a half a store away. I also talk to much, that is of course a symptom of being the only guy around at nights. So when I see people I talk and I’m loud which leads to problems. What I’d like in life is for people to tell me this, I’m aware of it see and when pointed out nicely I can reign it in fast, be rude about it and I’ll crank it up higher to piss you off. You be rude to me I’ll be rude right back. I’m spiteful like that.